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How To Stick To Your New Year’s Resolutions

By Ingrid De La O , January 1, 2020

January is the month in which gyms are the busiest. It’s the beginning of the New Year and people set out to make (and keep) resolutions. For the longest time, I too was one of those people. Year after year, I made a new resolution to eat better, to lose some weight, and perhaps to learn a new skill. But year after year, my resolutions fell flat within the first few days.

I wasn’t alone. Most resolutions just become dreams instead of real solutions – essentially unmet goals. About 92% of resolutions fail according to a search study from the University of Scranton in Pennsylvania.

So the question remains, why do we so frequently fail at changing our habits? Shifting a part of your identity is really difficult to do. The pros of developing a new healthy habit far outweigh the cons, and yet, being perpetually motivated by the pros seems tough even when we know this will improve our lives.

James Clear, author of the book Atomic Habits is an expert at taming habits. His book teaches step-by-step how to make sure your resolutions are turned into a real solution – a healthy habit that becomes part of your daily routine and ultimately part of your identity.

So if you have a New Year’s resolution in mind, here’s how you can easily stick to it.

Making small changes rather than big ones.

Most people set out to make huge changes that require an entire lifestyle shift. And this can undoubtedly become stressful. Losing weight is one of them. It requires carving out time to exercise, changing eating habits, changing what’s in the fridge and what’s in the kitchen – a lot of changes are necessary within the first month to succeed. Naturally, this is the one is one of the most popular New Year’s resolutions that ends up in the failed statistics.

But instead of shooting for big drastic changes, it’s easier too start with a smaller, easier habits that will eventually lead you to your goal. Like puzzle pieces. Start with the easiest pieces that are so simple you can add them to your daily routine without thinking much about it.

-Want to exercise everyday? Start with 10 sit-ups every time you get out of bed; stack this habit with other habits. Maybe do 10 sit-ups while you are brushing your teeth.

-Want to start meditating? Start with 30 seconds each day. In the second week, work your way up to 1 minute each day.

-Want to stop smoking? Smoke half a cigarette (I would throw them all away, but that’s a drastic change that might only make you crave them more.)

Rituals are what turn behaviors into habits

 Humans love metrics. We love to measure and see results. We want our behaviors to deliver new results. When trying to develop a healthy habit, it helps to focus on the behavior itself rather than outcome.

Here’s the problem. As Clear says, “New goals don’t deliver new results. New lifestyles do. And a lifestyle is not an outcome, it is a process. For this reason, all of your energy should go into building better rituals, not chasing better results.”

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By making something into a ritual we give it focus. When we choose our rituals and repeat them, they become habits. Rituals are the foundation of our greatest achievements.

Think clearly what you want to incorporate into your life. You need to enjoy it for it to stick. Make the rituals that you want to become habits into something enjoyable.

Want to floss everyday? Make a ritual out of it, floss to the tune of your favorite song.

If you want to make changes, your environment needs to change too 

If you want to start eating healthy you need to be surrounded by healthier food choices. You can’t have a pantry or a refrigerator full of junk food and expect to start eating healthier.

Your environment needs to change. That means, getting rid of, donating, or just hiding out of sight the unhealthy food and putting healthy food into eye level.

Want to lose weight, become more positive, and exercise more? Surround yourself with like-minded people.

Countless times I’ve watched the show “My 600 Lb. Life,” which highlights people who need to make healthier eating habits to save their lives. Unfortunately, most of the time they end up failing because the rest of the family members are eating junk food at the dinner table while the person trying to lose weight is eating a salad. It’s hard to make changes when everyone around is enabling bad eating habits.

Want to spend more time out of the office and with your family? Restrict emails, text messages, and anything that connects you from work around family time. That means leaving documents and work-related stuff in your office, and putting the laptop away in another room.

Micro-decisions create all outcomes of your life

It’s so easy to overestimate the importance of one defining moment and underestimate the value of making better decisions on a daily basis.

Almost every habit that you have — good or bad — is the result of many small decisions over time.

And yet, how easily we forget this when we want to make a change.

Every day we are faced with a decision, every minute, every second…

So often we convince ourselves that change is only meaningful if there is some large, visible outcome associated with it. Whether it is losing weight, getting married, traveling the world or any other goal, we often put pressure on ourselves to make some newsworthy improvements that everyone will talk about.

But in reality, it’s an accumulation of the micro-decisions we make every second of our lives. Decisions, and choices, all adding up in the bag we call life. And what happens at the end, when you are ready to see what’s in the bag, and see what you have accumulated over the years?

So today, think about the person you want to become. Do you want to become healthier? Do you want to become a writer? The decisions you make today will shape you into that person tomorrow.

Michaelangelo’s “David” wasn’t sculpted overnight. It took years of chiseling the marble to make the beautiful shape of a human. So start chiseling yourself today. Every chisel counts.

Further Reading: What Do You Want to Create and Why Haven’t You Done It?

INGRID DE LA O TUSOL Wellness Co-Founder & Chief Product Officer Ingrid De La O is a wellness expert living in Los Angeles. She’s been featured in NYT best selling books, #1 iTunes podcasts, and been written about in magazines such as Vogue, The Guardian, Malibu Magazine and more. Born and raised in Mexico City, she's the co-founder and health formulator at TUSOL Wellness. She's passionate in everything biohacking and loves to spend time learning everything there is to know about your cells. Ingrid has spent years studying functional nutrition and is a superfood expert. She formulated the TUSOL smoothie collection that cured both her Crohn’s Disease and postpartum depression within a period of four months

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